Be sexy, but not TOO sexy.
Be powerful, but not too powerful.
Be attractive, but not too attractive.
Friendly, but not too friendly.
Smart, but not too smart.
Successful, but not too successful.
Strong, but not too strong.
Cover up so as not to be prudish, but don’t show enough skin to be slutty.
Show your emotions so we can feel that you’re ‘safe’ to be around and likable, but not so much that it makes us uncomfortable with our own.
Always, always be yourself — just be careful not to be too different.
SHAME is the primary Feminine wound of the Patriarchy.
And it's finally time for that to be healed.
There is Shame for us in every option.
At every corner. In every choice we make.
Whether it’s at the hands of others — or ourselves.
It’s at the heart of the double-edged sword of “not enough” and “too much” that keeps most of us riding an impossible and stifling razor-edge of existence.
WHO WE ARE has become a choice to be contemplated, a label to define, a thing to compare with others, a ‘should’ to achieve — rather than a beautiful anomaly to celebrate in a sea of anomalies.
The Divine Feminine is Awakening, coming back to help tear down the crumbling Patriarchy and restore us to harmony —
— and restore us to Love, to Beauty, to Pleasure, and to our brightest inner Light.
There is NO Shame in her game.
So, starting now, I’m going to be sharing the things I’ve felt Shame around — whether at my own hand or others’ — with the hashtag #NoShameInHerGame…
…in an effort to shine a light on these parts of us that have no business being in Shadow.
Who wants to join me?
Share the places where you've been shamed --- or have shamed yourself --- and reclaim your inherent Goddess right to be ALL OF YOU, fully.
How do we take Shame out of the Feminine vocabulary as a collective?
ONE SHAMELESS SHARE AT A TIME — FROM AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE.
Use the hashtag #NoShameInHerGame and let's shine this massive light in all these shadows. 💕
Heather Allison is a Goddess Coach, Divine Feminine Channel and accidental Cosmic Shaman. She was plucked out of a 'normal life' by what she calls her Cosmic Team to help women Awaken the Goddess Within and find the Love, Soul, Pleasure and Purpose they're meant for.
As a coach, teacher, photographer, writer and the founder of Goddess Army --- the women's journey of Awakening and rebirthing ourselves into our Goddess lineage --- she works with coaches, healers, light workers and all soulful women who know they're meant for Mythic Love and Life, and guides them in finding grace, power, beauty, passion and pleasure through the Feminine.