On Self-Abandonment

I was just tagged in a post about self-abandonment --- and before I knew what was happening, a bunch of stuff started pouring out of my fingertips...

(Cosmic Team has been CHATTY lately. They had me up at 2:30am receiving a bunch of stuff that's so heady I'm amazed I was conscious enough to text it to myself. 😂 )


Here's what came through about self-abandonment if you feel like you put yourself last,

if you can't figure out why you're still wanting the guy who isn't showing up for you, or if you're still trying to DO something to get him to show up...

if there's a pattern of feeling like you need to "over-give" because that's the only way you'll be valuable to your audience, your clients, your partner...

if the idea of spending an hour or even 30 minutes every single morning on something the Wounded Masculine paradigm has deemed "frivolous" like self-care, self-pleasure, meditation, journaling ---

--- seems impossible, doesn't "make sense," or is just not something you "can" do...

if the idea of investing money in your own expansion, your own pleasure, your own evolution, your own JOY comes with an age-old tape of, "That's irresponsible," "But what if that's not possible," "You should be spending that money on something more practical"...

...this is for you. 👇🏼

In my experience, this is based on our patterning at a Quantum Archetypal level ---

--- we're conditioned to operate solely in the Masculine (all of us, as a people) thanks to this over-Masculinized paradigm we've been living in for thousands of years.

That Archetype is expressly EXTERNAL --- which means we're not "home" in our Centers, we're instead constantly focused on what's OUT THERE rather than what we need in here, how we feel in here, and what's already in here for us.

So we end up in this constant cycle of feeling like we don't have what we need --- because we're not 'home' to even notice it --- and we're constantly looking for something outside of us, something to 'fix' things ---

--- and (the cruel trick) we're not even able to Know how to align with what we DO need because we're not 'here' to receive that information (plus we've lost connection with the Feminine Archetype which allows us to Receive).

Bringing the Feminine back, healing BOTH of the Archetypes from their Wounded states, and allowing them to find their Union within us again ---

--- we are automatically nurturing our deepest needs rather than giving ourselves away to other people, conditioning, Scarcity and Fear-based constructs and other External reflections.

Repatterning this 👆🏽 sounds complicated, but it doesn't have to be. :)

These Archetypes WANT to Dance together, and they'll actually do the 'work' for us if we let them.

It starts simply by proving to ourselves that we're here, that we're present, that we're listening to those quiet, "doesn't make sense" needs ---

--- by Choosing US (first step in healing the Inner Wound) instead of all of those Wounded beliefs and patterns above.


Where can you begin to Choose You more?



PS — Activate this ancient, forgotten Archetype within you, and learn how to have the Love, Life and Magic you’re meant for — download your *free* Goddess Manifesto and audio invocation here. www.heather-allison.com/goddessing1

Heather Allison is a Feminine Energy and Quantum Leap Coach. She often says she was plucked out of a 'normal life' by what she calls her Cosmic Team to help women Awaken the forgotten, ancient Archetypes within so they can find the Love, Soul, Pleasure and Purpose they're meant for.

A coach, teacher, photographer, writer and the founder of Goddess Army, Goddesspreneur, Cosmic Shaman and the latest, the Golden Goddess journey, she works with entrepreneurs, healers, light workers and all soulful women who know they're meant for MORE — more Love, more Magic, more Beauty, more Flow… In journeying through her latest experience, Golden Goddess, her clients leave the shackles of the Wounded Masculine paradigm of Fear and Struggle behind, gain access to the ancient, forgotten Archetype of Goddess buried within them --- and Quantum Leap into their most Mythic Love and Destiny. Based in Seattle, she works with goddesses worldwide.