On Triggers

We all get triggered by our relationships — it’s what they’re for: relationships of ALL kinds are classrooms, initiations; they’re where we experience growth...

...and we Chose them before we landed here, for exactly that reason.

AND — I’ve noticed, since doing the work I do — that the things that would typically aggravate me, irritate me, set me off, trigger the fuck out of me...

...are starting to lose their Charge.

The dynamics of differences, the things said, the quirks, the rough Edges, the remarks — they haven’t changed.

In fact, they may have increased since I started doing what I do, and believing what I believe.

I’m no longer trying to “blend in” by mirroring those around me, and it makes for some.... interesting conversations.

And yet, my blood pressure now remains remarkably even most of the time.

My emotions stay fairly calm, my energy — previously giving rise to the petulant and incensed, the offended and the riled in the face of trigger — 

— has started to remain expanded and Light, easy, present, grounded.


Don’t get me wrong... I still have plenty of “moments.”

I still have times when those triggers seem to be driving and I’m sitting far behind the wheel going, “woah, where the fuck is THIS coming from...??”

But I’ve also never been so absolutely floored by how much has healed, how much trigger just rolls off my back or flows right around me, untouched — 

— simply as a byproduct of my having healed my own vantage point; the paradigm I’m now living in...

I often NOTICE my lack of trigger now.

I sometimes feel myself looking at myself from outside going — 

“Wow, look at you — your heart rate isn’t even changing... your energy’s not flooding your face, grabbing your throat, pounding out of your chest... 

That comment didn’t even touch you!”

And it blows me away.


Your triggers don’t own you.
The people who trigger you don’t have anything to do with who you really ARE.

It’s all movable.
It’s all shiftable.

It all gets to be so much easier than we’ve been led to believe it can be...



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