Those who are MEANT to join you --- whether that be in romantic relationship, in friendship, in client-relationship, whomever
--- will join you if they are capable, if they are aligned, and if they are meant to.
It is never, NEVER, your responsibility --- nor is it in service of them --- to try to 'help them' Choose...
The medicine doesn't come through without their deeply embodied Choice.
The Alchemy doesn't happen without their deeply embodied Choice.
It is all in the Choosing.
So where you are trying to explain or convince someone to join you,
where you are drilling through or rationalizing away their resistance or objections,
where you are focusing on how you can make it EASIER FOR THEM TO CHOOSE YOU ---
--- please understand, this is not in your service, nor is it in theirs.
The person who is 'so close' to Choosing her power, to claiming what she's worth, to stepping into her greatness...
The guy who you KNOW likes you, but you can't figure out why he's not asking you out...
The potential client who is floundering in Money Fear or Time Scarcity or limiting beliefs...
--- even if you think they just need the extra little nudge,
even if you think he's just shy,
even if you think they're being controlled by their Fears and need your help to see around them...
That all may be true ---
--- AND there are ways to connect with their Desires,
to touch the part of them that Knows what they're meant for and what they're capable of,
to BE the most powerful Invitation for their most expansive Choice ---
--- but please stop believing you need to HELP anyone Choose, or god forbid manipulate circumstances or conversations so they must.
Their Souls are orchestrating their opportunities and their 'edges' so that by the pure power of their Choice they melt away layers of patterning, pain, Shame and Wound ---
PS — Activate this ancient, forgotten Archetype within you, and learn how to have the Love, Life and Magic you’re meant for — download your *free* Goddess Manifesto and audio invocation here. www.heather-allison.com/goddessing1
Heather Allison is a Feminine Energy and Quantum Leap Coach. She often says she was plucked out of a 'normal life' by what she calls her Cosmic Team to help women Awaken the forgotten, ancient Archetypes within so they can find the Love, Soul, Pleasure and Purpose they're meant for.
A coach, teacher, photographer, writer and the founder of Goddess Army, Goddesspreneur, Cosmic Shaman and the latest, the Golden Goddess journey, she works with entrepreneurs, healers, light workers and all soulful women who know they're meant for MORE — more Love, more Magic, more Beauty, more Flow… In journeying through her latest experience, Golden Goddess, her clients leave the shackles of the Wounded Masculine paradigm of Fear and Struggle behind, gain access to the ancient, forgotten Archetype of Goddess buried within them --- and Quantum Leap into their most Mythic Love and Destiny. Based in Seattle, she works with goddesses worldwide.