We probably all have some "fixer" in us ---
--- we just want to HELP, want to help people evolve, awaken, heal, feel better...
One of the hardest parts of being a coach, IMO,
is turning that instinct off and allowing yourself to become simply an invitation for what's possible instead...
Because I can't do the healing for you anyway.
It is ALWAYS your Choice.
The Alchemy doesn't happen any other way.
(For this reason, none --- I repeat, NONE --- of the "sales templates" or "discovery call scripts" that focus on sales and drill into 'objections' truly create the fullest possibility of Alchemy and Soul alignment.
You cannot talk or steer someone into Choosing themselves ---
when we do, the work, and their transformation, are never as powerful.)
It can feel really hard to turn that instinct off, though...
But it gets easier.
The Wounded Masculine believes that our ability to "fix" speaks directly to our 'value' and our 'worth' ---
if we can "help fix" someone, then we're "good enough."
It believes that our ability to "get clients" means that we'll be okay, that we're successful, that we've made it.
(And that when we don't, we're not good enough, right?)
But the most beautiful gift I think I'm capable of giving
is, instead, allowing someone to see and feel that they don't need fixing in the first place.
They get to Choose to deepen and explore and create movement and change in their life if they feel called to
--- but I get to Remember (and I get to invite them to Remember) that they're already Whole.
That all there is, truly, is a coming Home to exactly who they've always been meant to Be.
And this, don't you see?, is where the real healing and Union and evolution occurs...
It's already in you.
Perhaps it's just the Key to unlock it that you've been waiting for.
PS — to Activate this ancient, forgotten Archetype within you, and learn how to have the Love, Life and Magic you’re meant for — download your *free* Goddess Manifesto and audio invocation here. www.heather-allison.com/goddessing1
Heather Allison is a Goddess Coach, Divine Feminine Channel and an accidental Cosmic Shaman. She was plucked out of a 'almost life' by what she calls her Cosmic Team to help women Awaken the Goddess Within and find the Love, Soul, Pleasure and Purpose they're meant for.
As a Feminine energy coach, love coach, life coach, soul coach, teacher, photographer, author and the founder of Goddess Army --- the women's journey of Awakening and Remembering our Divine Feminine magic --- she works with coaches, healers, light workers and all soulful women who know they're meant for MORE. Her passion is helping women awaken and embody their Inner Goddess archetype, and shift out of the paradigm of suffering and struggle, to find their Mythic Love and Life. Based in Seattle, she works with goddess worldwide.