Is he being honest? Here’s a red flag.
A comment of mine is getting a lot of traction and Loves/Likes in a thread I just happened to comment on... so I'm wondering if this needs to be shared for the rest of you ladies.
This person had received a message from a man she was dating (or about to go on a date with) who seemed to say all the right things, who seemed to be in integrity, who seemed like he would be deeply honoring of her time and her desire to NOT just have casual sex.
He assured her
he wasn't into casual sex
He assured her he wasn't into casual sex, wanted a long-term relationship, wanted intimacy and partnership... But then he ended the message with:
"Are you in?"
My comment was this:
“Are you in?” — 🙄
That’s code for, "this is about what I want — have I talked you into it yet?"
This isn't a game of kickball, dude.
This isn't a group hike or game of pub trivia.
I would run for the fucking hills if a financial advisor said that to me ---
--- why in the WORLD would I ever dive all-in with a man who was asking me this as a potential lover, date or partner?
Anyone who's going to be that flippant about inviting your Opening, the care of your emotions and sexual wellbeing, your Desires, period --- I would wager (hard) cannot Be With the depth of who you are, and how you desire to be met,
let alone hold space for how you Desire to be Opened.
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My clients Know that they Desire to be DEEPLY met by Love, by a Lover, by the Sacred Masculine (whatever gender their partner) --- they Know that it is their Opening to Receive exactly that that allows it to come TO her,
to hold her,
to fill her,
to Be With every inch of her.
You create the space where the Masculine gets to join you, loves.
Don’t settle.
xoxo
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