When you’re anxious about what could go wrong…

"Omg, but what if that happens..."

This used to be me.
Like, all my life.

That question, unconsciously, would be on a constant rotating repeat — like the most emotionally- and energetically destructive record player ever . . .

And for a VERY long time, it kept me from living my fullest life. Afraid I'd get hurt. Afraid something would happen that I wouldn't be able to handle. Afraid I wouldn't know what to do.

I would worry. I would "What if." I would lay awake at night, my heart racing, my adrenaline making my face flush, my stomach in knots.

Afraid something would happen that was outside of the nice little Controlled existence I was attempting to hold onto for dear life.

My mom even says we "come from a long line of worriers," so (as she also says) I come by it honestly.

It's not like I don't worry anymore, ever. But that's not a Pattern that controls me anymore.

Instead, I feel it come up — and I am VERY QUICKLY able to come back to my Center, back to my Power, and neutralize the worry — which lets me Uplevel every part of my life that much more quickly, instead of being held in the non-stop spin by that life-force-zapping record player.

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I got a great question from one of my Golden Goddess clients this morning about this . . .

“When we anxiously obsess about the various things that could go wrong, what's really going on?”

GREAT, great question. And I feel called to share my answer with you.

Your brain, your Ego
is actually trying to help you here.

It perceives that there may be some kind of a threat imminent, so it's basically being like Matt Damon in that diner scene in the first Bourne movie: Assessing every detail of the scene, every possible opponent in the people around him and information about them, every exit strategy . . .

But because You, who have done this work, and now have the tools and the access to your full Power

You Know more,
you Trust more,
and you have an inside line
to your Soul and your Divine Guidance

— You are now the one who gets to receive its recon info, and Choose what to do with it, instead of getting controlled, driven and overpowered by it.

When we obsess, we're taking all the recon info, and just playing it on a spinning repeat — instead of letting ourselves (with our Higher Knowing, Trust, Soul and Guidance) take one at a time, follow the thread of Possibility, and find the Choices we'll have if that should come to pass.

It can be really uncomfortable — which is why your Ego doesn't want to do it — but You, your Highest Self, are able to hold space for discomfort and find your Power in it instead.

So, what if "that thing" happens? What will happen then? What Choices will you have? What is your Deepest Truth, and how might you express that with your Goddess Language or your Sacred Masculine Action? What else might happen? And what then? What Choices will you have then? What's your Center and your Truth then? Is it different? Is it the same?

One thing that's also happening is we're only focusing on one half (if even that) of the spectrum of Possibility . . . Remember, the Feminine (and therefore your Power) comes from Wholeness and Infinite Possibility:

So what BEAUTIFUL things might happen here?
How might there be a gift
in even what you perceive is "this going wrong"?

What else is Possible?

(*I thought the Bourne thing was such a random download for this question, but it's pretty fucking profound. Check out this line from that scene:

"How can I know all that,
and not know who I am?"

— says Matt Damon AND your Ego. 🤯 🤯 🤯 )

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In practical terms, Golden Goddess is for the woman who wants to UNPATTERN all the ways that your Ego, your mind, your unconscious and your subtle-Energy Body are keeping you in a tailspin, keeping you from Expanding, from moving forward, from having the things you can FEEL are on the other side of some infuriating, invisible veil that you can't seem to move out of the way.

Here's a better What If: What if you could Know exactly what it is that's keeping you from the things you KNOW you're supposed to have? And what if you could have tools to move it once and for all,— and create shifts at SEVEN levels of your experience, so the shifts actually last?

#GoldenGoddess

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xoxo

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