Are you falling for the trap of Over-Masculinization?
We've gotten addicted to the 'high' of growing. Growing, achieving, 10x-ing, getting more, going bigger.
This is a symptom of our Fear of the Feminine, in that we think that it has to be all light, all growth, all happy, all high-vibe all the time.
We're afraid of stillness, of boring, of dull because we've been taught to associate it with something being wrong. Also because it asks us to be a lot more Intimate than we're comfortable getting.
The Truth is it can't be constant Creation,
constant Doing, all the time.
There ARE ebbs, there are quiet phases, there are lulls, there are even times when it may feel like things are falling apart and out of our control. It's easy to see, isn't it, how that belief has gotten us to where we are as a Collective, and especially as a Business Paradigm?
Push, push, push. If you're not producing, you're not of value. If you're not growing, you're doing something wrong. If you rest, you're lazy. If you follow your Intuition, you're crazy.
The caveat is — the true, non-Wounded, Sacred Feminine isn't about Passivity, either. In the same way that allowing yourself to Receive from a Masculine energy partner doesn't mean just rolling over and taking it, having no voice, being a doormat. That's not who the Feminine is. It's never who She has been.
And that's what we often bump up against when we begin the foray into the Feminine: we assume that it's either/or. That if we're not actively doing or pushing or growing or striving, then it necessarily means we're passive, submissive, lazy, insert any other adjective here for "not good enough" and "not as good as the Masculine."
When, for me — both in my experience and as I've witnessed in my clients — when we're truly Embodying the Feminine, and therefore truly following our Soul...
...She is ALWAYS going to be calling
us into Expansion.
Always.
And often in uncomfortable ways; ways that are even bigger than we have dreamed up. And that IS going to involve times when you are plunged deep into the Void, into Chaos, and you're going to be asked to get more comfortable with stillness, spaciousness, quiet.
(Hello — that IS Expansion.)
It IS uncomfortable stepping into Soul-Guided business — it's really uncomfortable to let go of the railings we've been taught to abide by; to release the things that have been shoved down our throats as the Only Way.
There's a lot of Fear that will come up. Not gonna lie. But as I see it, the state of the business world today — and the world in general — is a hamster wheel: Go bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger, get more and more and more and more; meet this, surpass that, 10x that over there —
— and this is exactly the mentality that has us burning out, killing our nervous systems, and losing ourselves (and our connection to our Souls) in the process.
This, for me, is what the Feminine Paradigm (of Business, and everything else we've been doing the Wounded Way) heals and leaves behind.
Your Truth is much, much Bigger
than the current ways could ever prescribe.
And feels much. much. much better.
xoxo
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