I'm just gonna say it...
I'm just gonna say it... This industry (which I do still love, btw... well... "complicated relationship" status?)
This industry used to be about teaching people how to be Empowered. But now it's about teaching people how to be Entitled.
It's a case of "bumper sticker Spirituality / Energetics / Philosophy / ideologies" turning into a Wound-creating Template without us being aware of it, because it is without the UTTERLY necessary teachings around Subtleties, Nuance, and something nobody seems to be talking about:
Wholeness without Having.
Empowerment has become a game of "Want and Get." And then what happens? What nobody tells you? Is that this paints you into a corner of Singularity with only ONE Linear pathway, ONE Linear way things have to go which means now it becomes possible for you to 'get it wrong,' 'miss the turn,' 'Choose the wrong thing' — enter Anxiety, Panic, Fixation, hyper-need to Control, get everything right, pressure, clenching.
And it creates MORE Attachment and Hooks in your Field (not less) and then you spend countless hours obsessing, trying to 'figure out how,' furrowing your brow, and trying to 'make it work. — enter Hustle, more coaches, more programs, more strategies that just take you farther and farther away from how you want to feel, and what you feel your Soul Work is in the first place.
And it has a tendency to turn you against yourself, and turning against your Soul because when it's not Unfolding the way you think it should, when you (surprise) can't actually "make" people buy, "get" people to do what you want, or shove the Universe into the shape you want it to be all the time — you'll start Doubting yourself, wondering what you're doing wrong, wondering what piece you're missing, wondering what 'they have' that you don't, wondering if you got it wrong... that maybe it's not actually meant for you, even though you felt SO STRONGLY that it was...
Does that mean we're just gonna "settle"? No. It's funny how that's where our Egos and Monkey Minds always immediately go first... straight into the swampy panic that says we're settling or giving up. No.
Settling
is Wounded Feminine.
Just like Complacency and Martyring are. Settling is the act of Releasing the Attachment WITHOUT continuing to honor the Desires. That's not what we're talking about here. (Remember, it's always a Both / And.)
But Wholeness without Having
is one of the greatest superpowers
you can ever have.
Why? Sound totally backwards and like "what is she smoking?" It's because when you can still hold your Worth and your value and your Soul Calling as TRUTH and your Desires as Possible when you can still hold your Heart wide open and you can still hold yourself in Liminality and not turn all of your 'rationality' weapons against yourself when you can still be WHOLE without Having the thing you are trying so hard to Get
a) that's when nothing can stop you
because you just simply keep Choosing toward the Sacred Destiny that's calling you... anyway
b) that's when you're not so spun-out trying to 'figure out' why it's not working, and how to fix it, and what she's doing and how she's doing it, and what else do I need, and what else can I try
that your Channel stays Clear and you can actually make the choices that Align you — more Magically, with your Soul and Miracles at your back — with (you guessed it) that very same Sacred Destiny you've been feeling calling you this entire time
and c) ...that's when you actually get to be a Vessel for Magic and Miracles — and let me just TELL you how glorious and mind-blowing and humbling that is, all at the same time.
Magic and Miracle and Sacred Manifestation are going to ask you to walk with this very-confusing Paradox. Always. Because it's what it looks like to both have Power AND to let yourself be poured into FULLYYYYY all at the same time. Both / And. Paradox.
Feminine Mysteries.
So loosen your grip.
So that you can Receive.
Message me to find the Mystery School experience that feels perfect for you...
There are 3 journeys, each with different inv/estment levels — there's a seat in the Path of Miracles with your name on it.
xoxo
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Heather Allison is a Divine Feminine Shaman + Energy Repatterning Coach for women.
Diving into any of her courses will allow you to shift out the Wounded Paradigm and Energy Patterns that are keeping you stuck — and help you step into deep Love and Sensuality, Soulful Success and Abundance, your Intuitive and Mystical abilities, the Bliss and Freedom you were actually BUILT FOR.
Your ability to Manifest your Destiny lies in the Ancient Feminine Power within you. It's time to let Her Awaken.
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