The problem with Dom / sub based Polarity Work

My view on one of the ways Wounds can actually be created in mentor dynamics:

The teaching of Dom / sub based Polarity Work.

Hear me out... There's nothing wrong with D/s — as a form of Play. As a form of exploration. Nothing at all.

I'm not even saying it's a 'lesser' form of Play or exploration than any other form. But the teaching of it as a form of the SACRED Archetypal Dance is incorrect.

There is no one-directional flow of Power in the Sacred Archetypal Dance.

It is a Dance of equals.

Completely different forms of Power, but equals.

It's a Dance of Mutual Sovereignty.

I know you might want to tell me the dynamics within D/s is also Sovereign, because there should always be consent — and I will agree with you in that, because when it's done right, when it's done safely, again, it's Play. It's exploration. It's CHOICE. But the teaching of this as the "RIGHT" or only form of Archetypal Energetics and dynamic between Masculine and Feminine is not accurate. It's a Template of Limitation being taught. One that doesn't speak to who these Archetypes really are at their core, at the Root of each of their Power.

What does that have to do with mentorship, the coaching industry, etc.?

When this is being taught — WITHOUT the foundational Truths of real Sovereignty underneath, without the foundational teachings of our own inherent and fully, deeply embodied Power FIRST... it's sneakily, subtly, invisibly, teaching us to hand our Power over to another. In the guise of being "the correct way." In the guise of "you'll like it." In the guise of "I know what's better."

No.

If we REALLY want to heal, if we REALLY want to claim our most innate, natural Power, if we REALLY want to be Creator in our own lives — in a way that doesn't create more Wound, for ourselves or for others, or for the world around us, then we have to come into Sovereignty.

Mutual Sovereignty.

The Remembrance
of Power WITHIN.

And the Honoring and Upholding of Power in Other.

Not a Template of directional Power, from one to another. That's what the true Sacred Feminine and Sacred Masculine within us are all about: the Remembrance of the Nature of Power within us. And THEN we can play with other Templates.

Because then we will be Choosing
from deep, embodied Wholeness.

xoxo

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