Stretching into discomfort for your expansion
One of the most powerful Expanders can actually come from the coaching container itself.
Calls when you're used to video.
Video when you're used to calls.
Deep, slow, immersive and intimate journeys when you've typically only let yourself invest in quick-hits and self-guided courses.
Groups when you feel like you do better in 1:1.
1:1 when you feel like you get to 'hide' in groups.
Letting yourself have an experience of Transmissions and Energy and 'being changed' —
— instead of understanding everything intellectually,
instead of gathering information,
instead of knowing "how" it's working...
When you let yourself stretch beyond what you're used to,
beyond how you usually do things,
beyond what you typically expect,
beyond your preferences,
you're letting yourself Expand
by letting go of more and more and more of your Conditionality.
The Conditions you Believe you "have to have" in order to Succeed, in order to Receive.
The Conditioned requirements you're living into
which are more than likely acting as walls
to what you're trying to call in in the first place.
We do get to Choose our experiences, yes.
We get to Choose things that feel good to our bodies, to our nervous systems, to our Emotion Bodies...
But how often do you let yourself stretch?
How often do you let your "boundaries" be movable, fluid things that are based on how you feel right now — AND what you Desire that might feel Edgy?
How often do you look to see whether these "boundaries" and "preferences" are really serving you —
— or if they're just keeping you from Intimacy,
from Receiving,