There’s a reason I’m not very much about goals
There’s a reason I’m not very much about goals.
That doesn't mean I'm don't hold Visions and make powerful Moves in their Direction, and Choose what I need to Choose to bring them to life. It means I don't hold them as "goals."
Because in their essence what goals are is a Line. Right? It's a marker we're trying to meet; a particular, measurable outcome we're trying to reach.
It's a line in the sand.
And, for me,
from the highest Archetypal perspective
— a line is Separation.
It necessarily splits the Primordial Feminine — our Power of Creation — in two. Now that is not a bad thing necessarily, because, as we know, both of the Archetypes, the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine are necessary for ANY Creation to happen.
But unless they're in their Sacred Dance rather than their Wounded one — meaning, unless the Energy we're holding around a goal is Whole, Expansive, and uplifting, and not based on a feeling of "get," need, Scarcity, competition, comparison, "I have to," "I should," "if I don't, there's something wrong with me," etc., — you can see how it's going to be a process that ultimately takes us DOWN the Spiral rather than helping us rise, even helping to carry us, UP it.
This doesn't mean we have to be perfect in our Energetics all the time. That's a) not real, it's not possible; it's not even an actual Measurement (what even IS "perfect Energetics") — we're Humans and we're necessarily in process in this Reality; and b) the idea of Perfection is a Wounded Masculine one — a rigid, Measured, Narrowed, full-of-Requirement and zero Possibility Energetic.
And it also doesn't mean we're sitting here, aimless, without any direction, without any Desires, Dreams, Visions; Believing that seeking growth is some kind of Wound. Because it's not.
It's HOW we hold the Dream — as a Calling? Or as a particular outcome to "make happen"? It's HOW we move toward the Vision — with Possibility and Permission to be in process? Or with pressure and push, and a Requirement of timing? It's HOW we source our Desires — from a deep well within that simply says, "There is always More, and I am always Expanding — and I'm ready to meet it, Receive it, rise up to claim it"? Or from an arbitrary marker placed by someone else, by society, by peers, by our own Self-Judgment?
What if you started seeing your growth, your Expansion, as container after container of exploration, Curiosity, Possibility, Wonder, that you get to simply be Guided through with your Soul's Wisdom — rather than a series of line after line after line that you have to "make it to" on an arbitrary, set timeline created by a Wounded idea of where you're 'supposed to be'?
That feels so much better, doesn't it?
I like this quote by Mark Manson, too: “Goals are a one-time bargain. They are the spending mindset. “I will spend X amount of energy to receive Y reward.”
Habits are an investing mindset. Habits require one to invest one’s efforts for a little while and then take the rewards of that effort and re-invest them in a greater effort to form even better habits.”
One is Transactional. Limited. Scarcity-based.
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