Are you guilty of "Someday Thinking"?

Some wise, hard truths from my higher self, as I was feeling emotional about a VERY late period (+ other convincing symptoms) and two negative tests, and needing guidance and grounding from my Soul...

See if there's anything that you can hear for yourself in here --- Someday Thinking does none of us any good... 

This is what my higher self -- my Soul Voice -- had to say:

"Do you hear how you've been saying, 
'I will... I will love my curvy belly and these extra pounds when I'm pregnant, instead of moaning about it... 
I'll obviously start taking better care of my body, my vessel, and stop drinking wine when I'm pregnant.'?

"Someday" thinking. Does nothing but keep that desire just out of reach. 

By starting now, before you have confirmation that you're pregnant, you're carving out the space for what you desire to come; you're fertilizing the soil, entering the vibration of that which you want to attract and create so that it can see you, find you, reach you."

Where are you saying "you will, someday..." or "you will, when..." and keeping your desires from reaching you? 

How can you start BEING -- right now! -- so that those desires can reflect that and start showing up for you instead?