People pleasers!! This one’s for you.
One of the things I'm learning about myself most in this is my two-sided People Pleaser / self-preservation tendency to:
a. hide unless I feel like I can do it right, do it perfectly, say the right thing, make sure the boat never gets rocked, and
b. fall in line with what other people are doing so that I don't look like the 'one a**hole who has a different point of view,' second-guessing myself if I have a different perspective, thinking "maybe I should just..." if everyone else is.
I'm sure you can see the ways those things uphold the systemically oppressive ways of this country, and I'm seeing how they have silenced me and my ability to be a strong ally for those who need my support.
We want to be good, we want to Belong, we want to do good, we want to help, even...but for some of us that manifests itself as Freezing. If I'm not positive that I'm doing it "right," in the past, I won't do it at all.
We don't learn to swim if we're not willing to get into the water, right? We literally CAN'T. There's no replicating what it's like to be in the water while we're standing on dry land, in the air.
So it's Edgy for me to continue speaking about this work, to continue showing up in Invitation for the women who want to Expand and grow and heal — I'm, on purpose, primarily using my Voice to amplify the voices of BBIPOC and the messages we all need to keep being flooded by so we can not just "go back to normal" and forget the injustices, so we can keep it raw and real and alive within us, so we can keep showing up and DOING something to better ourselves and better our Communities...
...AND I can't stay silent about my Soul Work,
so I'm wading into waters
that feel uncomfortable to wade into.
I can't let myself hide again. I can't let myself silence my voice again. I can't let myself take on Fear of speaking up and out again. I already have a hard time with 'being seen' and speaking up.
And so, in part because the more vocal I remain, the more vocal I remain... for everything I care about. But also because this work IS — more than literally anything else — about coming into the Patterns of Energy, behavior and emotion that allow us to create and uphold Sovereignty FOR ALL.
It's not exactly what I tend to I post about, because most people don't wake up at 1am going, "What do I do? How do I create more Sovereignty for all and how do I Honor every living Being?" (Maybe some of you do — and you are absolutely my people. )
They wonder how they can possibly birth their Soul Work into this world, when Marketing feels like it's failed them, and feels like shards of glass to their nervous system. They wonder how they even Know what that Soul Work is, or if it's even valuable. They wonder how they can be really, truly Aligned with the greatest version of who they came here to be, and the Highest version of what their Soul has in store for them.
They wonder why their relationships or Love life are so mired in disconnection, loneliness, discord, conflict and feeling unseen. They wonder why they can't seem to find their joy, their Purpose, their healing of Wounds that keep binding them in pain. They wonder how they can put down the walls and the swords already... they're tired of fighting so hard.
This work teaches Sovereignty
— theirs, based on the Voice of their Soul and their ability to hear Her and shift out of Wound enough to bring through what She came here for
— and others, including the Universe at large, based on Honoring Free Will, Honoring Choice, Honoring the Paths that others walk, Honoring and upholding of Life and Nature as the primary guiding force for how we Create with Creation Energy, Honoring the Voice of another, the Truth of another, and based on avoiding, at all cost, the Misuse of Power.
It teaches the Sovereignty of ALL by plunging us deeply into the Sacred Archetypal Truths:
The Sacred Feminine — the Embodiment of Sovereignty
The Sacred Masculine — the Upholding of Sovereignty
The Zero Point or Sacred Oneness Archetype — Wholeness and LOVE of all. of. it.
So, along with continuing to speak up about what I want to see in this world, and the atrocities that I want to see end, and along with continuing to amplify the voices who we've been silencing for far too long — I'm going to keep using my voice for this Work, as well.
It's why it was given to me. It's never about "getting" what we want to "get" or manipulating forces or Energies for our own purposes...
...it's about our Wholeness.
And I want that for literally every single Being.
I love you.
Please keep going.
We need your voice AND your Stand
for those who haven't been able / given
Permission to use theirs.
xoxo
PS — to Activate this ancient, forgotten Feminine Power within you,
and finally have the More you're meant for — grab your FREE intro course here
Heather Allison is a Divine Feminine Shaman + Energy Repatterning Coach for women.
Diving into any of her courses will allow you to shift out the Wounded Paradigm and Energy Patterns that are keeping you stuck — and help you step into deep Love and Sensuality, Soulful Success and Abundance, your Intuitive and Mystical abilities, the Bliss and Freedom you were actually BUILT FOR.
Your ability to Manifest your Destiny lies in the Ancient Feminine Power within you. It's time to let Her Awaken.
“This was the best decision I ever made.
Everything I didn’t know I was missing.” — Amy Young
"Do whatever you have to do to experience this work.
Seriously. It'll change your life." — Julia Wells
“This isn’t like any ‘personal growth’ course you have ever done,or will ever do.
It has been the most divine experience I‘ve ever had.
It’ll be the best money you have ever spent investing in yourself. — Kelly Sherlock
“This work is revolutionary.
There are no limitsto the ways it can change your life.”— Danna Hasson Yahav
“This work is so powerful, there truly are not adequate words to describe it...
...other than mind-blowing and life-changing.” — Jaime Miller